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Labor Day Observations

September 8, 2009 by D. Gardner Leave a Comment

Thanks Stock.xchang for the cool photo
Thanks Stock.xchang for the cool photo

Labor day was hot in Texas.  Our stake fasted and prayed for rain on Sunday, because Austin is in a drought.

Last week it rained twice and two of my freinds said their kids asked them “because it rained, do we still need to fast”

I also saw one thing that was cool yesterday.  Apparently a truck had stopped on the road and the driver and the passenger were pushing the truck.  It was cool because two other vehicles had stopped and were helping the guys push their truck into a gas station.

Having worked with boy scouts for a while and the boy scout slogan is “Do a Good Turn Daily”  I like to see people helping other people out.

Filed Under: Journal Entry Tagged With: Fasting, Good Turn, Scouting

Testimonies in Church Today

September 6, 2009 by D. Gardner Leave a Comment

There were a couple good testimonies in church Today.

First there was a woman, named Taylor Hartley, her Husband is James.  They just recently moved into the ward.  I am going to write down what she said.  I probably should ask here to tell her story.  I am writing this down in case I never get her to write her testimony This is what I rember .

She grew up in Phoenix Arizona.  She had LDS friends but she didn’t think she would ever join the Church.  At 18 she moved to LA to get onto a TV Show.  But when she saw the script she didn’t want to portray the character to young women.  Her mother told her “Sometimes you just need to do things to get ahead.”  She said she felt that sometimes she was the mother and her mom was the daughter.

So she was feeling pretty bad because she had just quit her job and didn’t know what to do.  She was talking to one of her girl friends, from Phoenix that was LDS, on the phone and she said that she had sent a care package with a book of Mormon.  As they were talking on the phone a couple of missionaries knocked on her door, they had a Book of Mormon to give her.  The first thing she told them was “I am not going to join your church” But I want to learn more. She said the missionaries were great and really nice.  So they started having discussions.  At one point the missionaries asked her if she would pray to find out if the church was true and if she should get baptized.  She spent a couple of days praying and she didn’t get an answer.  So she called the missionaries and said “I don’t think it’s true, I haven’t gotten an answer”  They said find can we still come over for dinner.  She agreed.  When the missionaries came over they asked her “If when you were praying the Savior had come down and told you the church was true would you get baptized?”  She told them “I would not”  she said she hadn’t really prayed sincerely.  The missionaries ask if they could pray with her then.   They asked her to pray and knelt down together.  She said that night she had a dream that her family was yelling at her and saying all sorts of mean things.   This was very disturbing and she was laying on the ground crying.  At this point her family had left.  Still laying on the ground her friends mother put her hand on shoulder and said its time.  At this point she was dressed in white clothes and was baptized.

She said when she woke up she knew the church was true.  She then called the missionaries and asked when she could set a date to be baptized.  At that point she didn’t know that here family was going to disown her.

She also talked about Joseph Smith and how that was hard to except, but now it seems so logical that God would choose a 14 year old boy to start the church.  Because he picks the weak and simple things to make a difference.

She also bore her testimony about missionary work and that she knew how important it is to warn our neighbors.

It was a very powerful testimony.  I really felt the spirit bear witness to the truthfulness of the things she said.

Another good testimony was Brother Doug Leininger.

He basically stated that he was having some trials in his life, but that his testimony and faith remained strong despite his trials.

As I struggle through life I am glad to see and feel other peoples testimonies that help me.

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Health Care Reform My .0001 Cents Worth

September 2, 2009 by D. Gardner Leave a Comment

Yesterday on Twitter a good friend of Mine Jayd McFerson posted the question

Can anyone link me to a solid breakdown of what elements are causing healthcare costs to increase faster than inflation? Legal? Tech? Drugs?

I believe the way the industry pays people is the reason health care costs have gotten out of control. I actually sent this message to Jayd on Facebook first. but I thought I’d put it up on my blog with a little more explanation.

The basic premise here is, “If you don’t have to pay, out of your own pocket, for something you don’t really care what it costs, and costs will get out of control.”

At first before people had insurance they paid their doctor directly. The doctor if the costs were not reasonable  people  would stop using his service.

Then, when costs were low, companies started to offer health coverage as a way to attract the best workers. Now people cared less about how much the doctor was getting paid because It didn’t come out of their pocket. I imagine the insurance companies are the ones that first presented the idea to businesses. They knew that they could cover way more people than would be using the services. So they started taking in money from companies and paying doctors for services.

The insurance companies had a huge pot of money. Because the doctor wasn’t asking the patient directly for money he could be a bit more bold and charge a bit more and when no one complained he charged even more, and more, and more. The insurance companies weren’t paying attention or pushing back. All they cared about was the money coming in. If the costs increased a little from doctors they just increased the cost to the company.

At this point and am going to change the perspective.

Because I not responsible for the bill I keep going to the doctor. When I went for a check up and the doctor said “I think we need to check your blood.” I say sure, what do I care what it costs.  My health insurance will cover an unlimited amount of care.  Right?  I have no idea what that blood test is going to cost. The doctor knows he can probably get $2500 from the insurance company to run a bunch of tests on my blood.  It’s only going to cost him $200 to get the test from the lab.   That’s a pretty decent profit. The doctor justifies it.  I spent 12 years in medical school and every other doctor in my town is charging the same thing. I deserve the $2300 for the 15 minutes it took my staff to take your blood and get it ready to ship to the lab.  Plus I have to pay my $15 dollar an hour nurse to package all the stuff up.  Eventually the lab finds out the doctor is billing tons and says that is not fair we are doing all work and the lab raises prices.   The insurance company looks at the bill.  It looks pretty close to every other blood work bill and goes ahead and pays it.  But at the end of the year they have make 8% less than less year.  Okay says the insurance company we are going to nead to raise premiums by 11% to cover the increases.

At some point someone pushed back but it was too late and everyone is making big money.

It seems pretty logical to me this is the way things go. The motivation is ,as it is in all free markets, to charge as much as you can for your service. If people pay then that’s what you charge and the whole time you increase the price until someone says no.

For instance I lost my insurance when I got laid off a couple of years ago. We had been going to a doctor near our house because of convenience. With insurance we had a $20 co-pay. With out insurance we went back and got charged $250 for a visit. My wife called a couple of other doctors that were close, and that were in our old list of doctors from the insurance book. There was another doctor right around the corner from our old doctor who only charged $70 for an office visit. We went to the other doctor and got basically the same service. The funny thing, under our insurance, we have have been charged the same $20 co-pay to go.

I believe a simple solution to the problem is have people pay their own insurance. Give the insurance companies the chance to make there massive amounts of money by offering catastrophic plans where every thing over $10,000 or $20,000 is covered by insurance. Then everything under that is covered by me. I get a tax free medical account that I see coming out of every check, and I see the balance go down when I go to the doctor.
It’s funny to note this sort of plan exists now and has for a long time.

But I have gotten used to the plan where I don’t have to pay attention to what the costs are and I get a little upset when my company makes me pay more for my insurance, but it was only $45 more a month than it was last year. I guess I can deal with that. And so it goes.

But like the tree falling in the forrest, I make my case in vain. No one really cares if it makes a sound.

I am too lazy to try to make a difference anyway. Plus I don’t really have the time, I have to work an extra 30 minutes a day to pay for my new health plan.

And one more strand of the flaxen chord is strung around my neck. The few that are there already aren’t that uncomfortable, not a big deal.

Filed Under: Journal Entry

Looking To Own A Phrase On The Internet

September 1, 2009 by D. Gardner Leave a Comment

As I have been writing over the past couple of weeks I have been seeing myself type “Owner Thinking” much more. I am going to try to own that phrase on the internet.

The reason I want to do this is because that is the philosophy I am trying to push as a compensation/pay-for-performance strategist. I want everyone in a business to think and act like an owner. hence the term “Owner Thinking.”

I will see how things go and I will report back

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Blessings come in small ways

August 30, 2009 by D. Gardner Leave a Comment

As I sit here trying to think of something that would be attention grabbing right at the first of this post to grab attention and make someone read further. I figure a couple things, I’m really just writing this for me, no one is reading this posts anyways and it probably isn’t worth the effort.

Back to the story. This week has been tough for me, as I am sure it has for millions of people. I spent a bunch of time working with young mens for the combined activity and then trying to pull off the camp out for the scouts. But a wonderful thing happened. The hobo dinners we made at the camp all worked to start the deal. But that was not the best thing. Durning the night while I was sleeping in my tent I got cold. This is a pretty common occurrence in the western states, but durning the summer, over the last 10 years camping in the south this has never happened to me.

And to top it off the sunrise was beautiful and I didn’t even have to get out of bed to see it. It’s just these little things that keep me having faith that God is there and he cares about me. Hopefully there were others that felt the same way about the cool night and the beautiful sunrise. But if not I am grateful I had those small things to make my life a little better, a little more enjoyable at the end of a tough week.

Another fun thing for me this week is I communicated with two people that I was connected with in High School. It was fun to see that both of them had kids that played waterpolo. That is what I played in High School and really enjoyed it.

Filed Under: Happy Thought, Journal Entry

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