{"id":1480,"date":"2020-07-23T03:33:35","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T10:33:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.deegardner.com\/new\/?p=1480"},"modified":"2020-07-23T03:33:38","modified_gmt":"2020-07-23T10:33:38","slug":"wow-where-have-i-been","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.deegardner.com\/new\/2020\/07\/23\/wow-where-have-i-been\/","title":{"rendered":"Wow, Where have I been"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Since the last writing I have started going back into the office.  It is interesting to hear and see other people&#8217;s perspectives on covid-19 the Corona virus.  However, I digress. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am going to have to add a few books to the my list of completed.  I should get better at this.  I have read John C Maxwell 15 Laws of Growth.  I will need to re-read this book several times to get everything out of it.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maxwell suggests taking a week to implement each law &#8211; So will need to keep reading.  Maxwell is also pretty confident of his ideas because the world has given him so much money.  It&#8217;s easy to gain confidence when people give you money because of your ideas.  It makes me questions how much truth there is to his ideas.  I am beginning to question if people get lucky they start to think they know more than they do.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I also read Astrophysics for People in a Hurry, by Neil DeGrasse Tyson.  I liked this book because of the ideas that help expand my universe.   He is a bit overconfident in the science when he admits in his book that we only know about 5% of the universe and the other 95% is filled with stuff we don&#8217;t know about but called &#8220;Dark Matter.&#8221; He also explains there is a cosmic force that is out there they cannot identify, which is called &#8220;Dark Energy.&#8221;  Fascinating stuff.  He admits that we don&#8217;t know much about gravity and other things that are going around us all the time, like gravity waves and neutrinos.  He doesn&#8217;t call science a religion but with the faith he expects us to put in his beliefs it should be called a religion. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The other book I read is Malcolm Gladwell&#8217;s  Talking With Strangers.  This is a fascinating look at how we interpret and misinterpret other people but most importantly strangers.  He goes into the problems the assumptions we make are causing problems. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One interesting thing is he discusses is that we &#8220;default to truth.&#8221; Which means we automatically believe what people say is true unless there is over-whelming evidence to get us to change that idea.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another idea I picked up from the book is that TV shows make it so obvious what the actors are thinking and feeling we don&#8217;t even need the sound on to understand what is going on.  But people from other places and other cultures do not understand the facial expressions the same way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am coming up with a new philosophy of why people have a hard time trusting me.  I believe now it is because I have not watched that much television in my life.  We didn&#8217;t have a TV until I was 12 and by then I had figured out other ways to fill my time.  At 15 I started playing sports, a social life, my high school home workload, a job, and other adventures I didn&#8217;t have much time to watch TV.   I can now see where this has put me at a disadvantage because I do not know how to act like people on tv. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since the last writing I have started going back into the office. It is interesting to hear and see other people&#8217;s perspectives on covid-19 the Corona virus. However, I digress. I am going to have to add a few books to the my list of completed. I should get better at this. 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