It’s been a while since I posted, does it really matter, does anyone care. NO WAY. well maybe my grandkids will pull this up in 2052 the day after I die just to see what that old senile guy was like when he was less old.
Well I figured out one of my biggest problems, I don’t know how to communicate with people: Writing or speaking. I Can’t get a decent job, my friends stop communicating with me, and worst of all I thought I was good at communicating. This also proves I am pretty lame at listening. Oh my poor wife has had to put up with me all these years, bless her heart.
So after 41 years of living I pull my head out of the proverbial sand and figure I better start praying to overcome yet another weakness.
I now understand the confused look on the interviewer’s faces as they thank me for coming in. They had no clue what I was talking about. Most of the time the don’t have the heart to tell me, the half wit, I didn’t get the job.
Remember this is more therapy for me than for anyone to read. I figure anyone that reads this will be confuse and stop reading the words about now.
I am going to write down some things I have learned.
Most men have no clue what a woman wants, in a man or anything else. Especially young single men, I was once one so I know. I used to look at girls and if they were thin, tan and blonde, I’d think if I was thin, tan and blond that girl will like me. I’ve wasted some time trying to be thin, tan and blonde. However, women could care less if a man was thin, tan and blond. As I have grown older and lost all hope of being thin, tan and blonde. I realized all the effort I was putting into futilely trying to hold back the flood gates of the aging process, was not getting me into a better relationship with my wife. I found some advice online from a woman who did a wonderful job of explaining what women want in terms a dimwitted man like me, who was looking for help could understand. I am really amazed how much better my relationship is with my wife now that understand a few things.
Maybe I’ll continue this later.